My Poor CAR!

So my mom and I are driving back to the house from dinner.
She's driving my car.
We're on this road where it drops down to 25 mph.
All of a sudden this ass whip rams us out of no where in the back.
We both hit our heads against the head rest.
My Mom's glasses go flying.
I so expect to get out of my car and find the trunk in my back seat.
fortunately the only damage is the bumper, the plexie glass shattered.
But my mom pulls over thinking that the person ill pull over too.
And the drive off.
What assholes!
So my beautiful car, of only 4 months new, is damaged.
I'm so upset.
I'm so pissed.
So sucks.
What a wonderful month this is turning out to be.

How a Guy should be...

"Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot. Who calls you back when you hang up on him. Who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep.... Wait for the boy who pursues you, who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats. Who holds your hand in front of his friends. Who thinks you're the prettiest when you have no make up on and insists on holding you around the waist. The one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you... The one who turns to his friends and says "thats her" ~ Anon

Love. Like. Lust. Learn.

The four pillars of a long lasting (and happy) relationship.

Love. The foundation of every relationship. It occurs when you care about someone. Interestingly, you can love someone without even liking them. Key words are compassion, trust, respect.

Like. To like someone means enjoying spending time with that person. Being friends. Key words are laughter, fun, interest.

Lust. Don't underestimate the importance of this one. Wanting to hold your partner, to kiss them, to make love. If the sizzle is gone, the relationship loses intensity. Finding each other attractive is vital for longevity.

Learn. Partners must inspire each other. Impress each other. Push each other to new places. Challenge and motivate your partner, learn from them, and teach them.

More Pain

How do you move on after giving all of yourself to someone for two and a half years?
How do you erase the memories?
How do you love again?
How do you breath?
I believe that these are all age old questions.
My heart will go on as they say but right now...it's all crap.