Love. Like. Lust. Learn.

The four pillars of a long lasting (and happy) relationship.

Love. The foundation of every relationship. It occurs when you care about someone. Interestingly, you can love someone without even liking them. Key words are compassion, trust, respect.

Like. To like someone means enjoying spending time with that person. Being friends. Key words are laughter, fun, interest.

Lust. Don't underestimate the importance of this one. Wanting to hold your partner, to kiss them, to make love. If the sizzle is gone, the relationship loses intensity. Finding each other attractive is vital for longevity.

Learn. Partners must inspire each other. Impress each other. Push each other to new places. Challenge and motivate your partner, learn from them, and teach them.